Sunday, April 20, 2014

Do Bunnies Lay Eggs?

I was troubled at Christmas and yet again, troubled at Easter. I wonder if this will only be for a season, but truly pray that it isn't and that my conviction remains as long as there is a desperate need in this world. 

Please don't get me wrong, I don't hate Santa or the Easter Bunny (although I don't really understand the whole bunny thing), but watching the numerous posts of children receiving a large, and I mean LARGE, amount of unnecessary, short lived gifts during these "holidays," are so troublesome to me. The time, resources and money spent on such items have left my stomach in knots. It doesn't hurt so bad when I compare my child to those in America, but comparing him to those of his native country (and really the rest of the world)... WOW... the Easter Bunny just sounds silly. 

Please teach your children truth, Jesus dying on the cross & rising 3 days later, Baby Jesus being born to the Virgin Mary, the Hope in these stories,  the amazing, undeserved love in these stories, the need for these stories. May our children not be disappointed when or if Santa doesn't show up. May they not be sad when the Easter Bunny doesn't pay a visit. May they be taught by you & me & their Sunday School teachers & their church families that there are soooo many children in the world that are waiting for food, clean water, a family, and all they have is Jesus. Jesus is enough and no Santa or Bunny will ever, in their life, visit them. May they grow up understanding reality & not false tales.

This isn't intended to guilt anyone or cause children to "miss out" on anything, but it's so incredibly important that our focus is always on Him. And yes sometimes, even our traditions, get in the way of what today is all about. (Be on the lookout in 2015 for a way to get involved globally to share with other children the true meaning of Easter.)

(Eli's first Easter - At least we have another year to figure out how to explain this picture to him) 


P.S. Most will read this post, because of the picture attached... I'm ok though with reeling you in that way... I admit it. I even considered including a picture of a beautiful, slightly malnourished, child from Africa with their Easter baskets & bunny ears, but had a rather hard time finding one... Hmmm? Wonder why? 

And just in case you were wondering, like myself... Bunnies don't lay eggs. 

Friday, April 18, 2014

Love Knows No Borders

Yesterday I mentioned how hard it is to hear, see & know of a need and not do anything at all about it. While some have different feelings about domestic & international adoption, to which I would challenge anyone that feels one is more important than the other to dig deep into scripture and ask that the Holy Spirit answer those questions, both are a need.

Bridgette & Craig Cook have begun their journey to bringing a child home into their home. This journey isn't free; It's costly! It will cost them their time, emotions and financially as well. While you may not feel called to foster or adopt (or at least not yet), I'm calling on each of you to consider giving up $25 this Easter weekend to help bring home a child.

The cross was for us all and I'm so proud of this young couple taking the cross, it's story, it's truth, to others, not just in their own community but across the world! Their adoption t-shirt does just that ... It represents just how far love can reach!




So head on over and check it out...

Thursday, April 17, 2014

There is a need... What will you do about it?

It's hard to receive emails from friends that state... "There is an immediate need," and it's in reference to children that don't have a family. It's hard to swallow information when it's in your inbox of your email account, or on your Facebook page or in your mailbox. It's much easier to not meet the need, if we aren't aware of it. 

With that being said, I'm asking each of you to consider the following 2 things... 

1) Please pray for the children that are needing a family right now, right this moment. Don't wait, stop reading the rest of my blog and just simply pray. "For when two or three are gathered together in my name, I am there among them." Matt. 18:20

2) Come back tomorrow and read my blog on another family that needs your support in order to bring their child home. You WILL want to be apart of this. And whether you are called to physically adopt or foster, as Believers we are ALL called to DO SOMETHING! 


Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Be Obedient

Well, we've officially been home for almost 3 months! So much has happened over the past few months, it's nearly impossible to have ever imagined that this is what life would be like and that God would bless us with such an amazing child. 

For those of you who were able to join us on Valentine's Day as we finalized Eli's adoption, thank you from the bottom of our hearts. It was a day we will never forget! Click here to view pictures from our day at court. 




Eli celebrated his first birthday on Feb 21st. I can't believe he is already 1! There was a day in time where we weren't sure if we'd even be back in Florida to celebrate his birthday, but by the grace of God, we were. We only invited family over for this special day, as Eli had so much excitement throughout the week at the Hardee County Fair, it was best to just keep is sweet & simple.

While I've enjoyed so much of our journey and sharing so many good, bad, emotional, wonderful, exciting times with each of you, the updates from here out will be rather limited. Parenthood is hard work and we want to give our little Eli as much attention as we can, because he is already growing up so fast as he begin to take his first few steps last week. I'll try posting on our blog here & there. And of course, there is always Facebook, Twitter & Instagram where he frequently appears.

If you haven't already seen the video, here is recap of our journey to adopt Eli. We had major issues with our camera in Uganda, even asked for you all to pray at one time that it would start working. But despite the camera issues, we were blessed with 

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 different photographers along the journey, 
​Emily Goodrich
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n Uganda; Caroline Maxcy at the Tampa International Airport; Megan Hartman, at court; and Annie Agarwal, who although we begged a
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 pleaded with
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 to fly with us to Uganda and capture it all, was able to capture our first of many, family photos. 


Please be in prayer for Eli over the summer time as we have begun visiting with several Doctors on his health and he'll be having a minor procedure. 

This journey has been mind blowing and it has taught us so many things about our Heavenly Father. 

I'd like to leave you all with this... Adoption was never "Plan B" for us, it was never a second option, it was God's design for our life. The way we view our future and our family isn't always the same way God views it. Be obedient. Whatever that looks like in your life, according to God, do it! No excuses, be faithful. It might be scary and unpredictable. It might be emotional and time consuming. But I promise you, in the end, it's worth it. God
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 is worth it. And for an orphan child, lying in the forest, trusting that God will protect him... It's totally worth it! 

Blessings,

​Paul, Jamie & Eli